Dominant or Submissive?
Who decides, who yields, who organises, who pushes. Sixteen questions about ordinary power.
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About this test
Every relationship contains a distribution of ordinary power. Nothing theatrical about it: who picks the restaurant, who books the holiday, who opens the hard conversation, who gives in at 11pm so everyone can sleep. That distribution usually says more about a couple than anything they declare out loud.
This test is about that ground and nothing else: relational temperament. Sixteen very concrete situations, a score from 0 to 100, five profiles running from "clearly hands-off" to "firmly directive." No question touches on sex and no result discusses it.
Two things worth stating plainly. These roles aren't fixed: the same person can lead at work and be carried in love, or flip position entirely with a different partner. And any power dynamic, whatever its shape, holds only on explicit agreement between adults — consent is discussed, revised, and can be withdrawn at any moment with no justification owed. A dynamic nobody chose isn't a dynamic, it's a habit due for renegotiation.
This test is provided for entertainment purposes only. It is not a diagnosis or professional advice.